Andrea Tibbitts

I offer face to face sessions at a beautiful, accessible office in Chertsey, with free and easy parking.   Home visits may also be possible in the vicinity of Surrey KT16, subject to scheduling and location.

I also offer face to face sessions for part of the week in Esher.

All my other sessions are online. The results for online therapy are found to be identical to that for in-person therapy.

Subject to availability, double sessions are a common way that couples choose to make progress more quickly.

Results are even more accelerated at the 1/2 day, 1 or 2 day Relationship Retreats and EFT Intensives which I offer at my Chertsey Clinic at weekends. You would just need to arrange your own accommodation if this was required.

Please contact Andrea on 07966-594440 for further information or email tlc@theloveclinic.net.

A very warm welcome to The Love Clinic. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a Relationship Specialist. I am BACP Accredited and Internationally Certified in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT), Family Therapy (EFFT) and Individual Therapy (EFIT), and a Love & Life Breakthrough Coach. My passion for this work is centred on my belief that heart connection = happiness.

I have helped couples with increasing distance and distress, escalating fights, marriage breakdown, the discovery of an affair, separation, loss of libido, a discrepancy in sexual desire, domestic abuse, anger management, conflict resolution, differences in parenting, and feeling that they no longer liked each other, let alone loved.

You might be struggling in one of these hard places in your relationship. Maybe you wonder whether you are actually compatible, or whether you can find your way back to each other. Maybe the two of you are divided on if you even want to try... If you identify with any of these then my heart goes out to you.

As well as the option of single or double 50 minute sessions, I offer 1/2 day, 1 and 2 day Relationship Retreats and EFT Intensives at weekends in Chertsey. These can significantly accelerate your journey from distress to success. 

Or maybe your family dynamic feels stuck with no one quite getting their needs met. It is common for the tension to be between two people especially, but it is likely that you are all suffering. Family therapy can be powerful to deal with the root issues, and bring a shift towards connection.

As an individual, maybe you are struggling with low self-esteem, stress, anxiety or depression, or you are looking for relationship support of your own. It is my heart to come alongside you, and help you come home to the true version of you.

Whatever recurring unhappy cycles you are stuck in, within yourself or with others. It would be my privilege to help you ‘come home to happy’, and flourish as an individual, as a couple, and as a family. 

As an Emotionally Focused Therapist there are 3 stages to the Relationship Recovery Roadmap for connection therapy:

De-escalating, Restructuring and Consolidating

We will start by de-escalating your negative cycle and then follow a roadmap of addressing the underlying causes, repairing your ruptures and embedding the changes that you have made. The goal is for you to enjoy deeper connection, either with the struggling parts of your heart, or with loved ones.

My heart is to resource you. So on our journey together I draw from my unique toolkit to personalise your recovery, and take you from surviving to thriving.

To help you achieve your desired results more quickly, there is the option of double sessions, as well as 1/2 day, 1 or 2 day Relationship Retreats and EFT Intensives in Chertsey.

As a Therapist trained to Level 2 in The Gottman Method, I have access to these resources as well.

My heart is to resource you. With this in mind my No.1 Bestseller book 'Marriage Makeover: Make Yours Great' is available on Amazon.

https://mybook.to/MarriageMakeover

In summary I offer 4 services across Individual, Couple & Family Therapy:

1. Connection therapy

Offered for couples and families with children aged 13+. After an initial family assessment the sessions focus on the most troubled dyads

2. Coaching for personal growth

3. Clarifying through Discernment Counselling for mixed agenda couples, where one is leaning in and one leaning out of the relationship

4. Courses online with optional mentoring

I am passionate about restoring harmony in your heart and your home, so you can live a life you love. It would be a privilege to come alongside you with sensitivity. My heart is for you to 'come home to happy', as an individual, as a couple and as a family.

You are welcome to book a free 15 minute call, and you will be met with TLC at The Love Clinic.

You will be given a warm welcome at The Love Clinic.

Your first session is an informal assessment. Whether you attend as an individual, as a couple, or as a family, it will be an opportunity for you to share your recent experience of the situation from your perspective, and what you would be looking for from our time together.

It is also helpful for me to understand what the catalyst has been for your decision to try therapy now.

If you have had previous experience of seeking help for your presenting problem, it will be really important to share what that was like for you too, and in particular what caused you to now seek support elsewhere.

Having gleaned an insight into your current source of distress and goals of therapy, I will introduce you to the roadmap for your recovery, and how it will be tailored to you. This assessment will provide clarity on the next best step for you in the process, whether as an individual, a couple or family.

In Couple Therapy this first session will be followed by an individual session with each of you. For some couples a Relationship Retreat or EFT Intensive over a weekend may be the smartest way forward, or double sessions are an option.

If you come for Family Therapy then the plan for the subsequent sessions will be formed from the assessment information. However, the focus will be on those dyads within the family that are presenting with the most distress. Therefore most sessions will only be for those caught in that negative cycle, rather than for the whole family.

I offer a free 15 minute online consultation if you would like this before booking your first session. Most importantly this will give us a chance to meet. However it will also give you the opportunity to ask me your burning questions, and it will offer me the chance to explain more to you about how I work both therapeutically and practically.

I look forward to hearing from you and supporting you on your heart journey. You deserve the opportunity to 'come home to happy'.

I offer face to face sessions for part of the week in Esher.  

I also have a Clinic in Chertsey where I have more scheduling flexibility. Home visits may also be possible in the vicinity of Surrey KT16, subject to scheduling and location.

All my other sessions are online.  The results for online therapy are found to be identical to that for in-person therapy.

Subject to availability, double sessions are a common way that couples choose to make progress more quickly.  

This is especially the experience at the 1/2 day, 1 or 2 day Relationship Retreats and EFT Intensives, which I offer at my Chertsey Clinic at weekends.  You would just need to arrange your own accommodation if this was required.  

Please contact Andrea on 07966-594440 for further information or email tlc@theloveclinic.net.

A very warm welcome to The Love Clinic. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a Relationship Specialist. I am BACP Accredited and Internationally Certified in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT), Family Therapy (EFFT) and Individual Therapy (EFIT), and a Love & Life Breakthrough Coach. My passion for this work is centred on my belief that heart connection = happiness.

I have helped couples with increasing distance and distress, escalating fights, marriage breakdown, the discovery of an affair, separation, loss of libido, a discrepancy in sexual desire, domestic abuse, anger management, conflict resolution, differences in parenting, and feeling that they no longer liked each other, let alone loved.

You might be struggling in one of these hard places in your relationship. Maybe you wonder whether you are actually compatible, or whether you can find your way back to each other.  Maybe the two of you are divided on if you even want to try... If you identify with any of these then my heart goes out to you.

As well as the option of single or double 50 minute sessions, I offer 1/2 day, 1 and 2 day Relationship Retreats and EFT Intensives at weekends in Chertsey, to significantly accelerate your journey from distress to success.  

Or maybe your family dynamic feels stuck with no one quite getting their needs met. It is common for the tension to be between two people especially, but it is likely that you are all suffering.   Family therapy can be powerful to deal with the root issues, and bring a shift towards connection.

As an individual, maybe you are struggling with low self-esteem, stress, anxiety or depression, or you are looking for relationship support of your own. It is my heart to come alongside you, and help you come home to the true version of you. 

Whatever recurring unhappy cycles you are stuck in, within yourself or with others, my heart goes out to you. It would be my privilege to help you ‘come home to happy’, and flourish as an individual, as a couple, and as a family. 

As an Emotionally Focused Therapist there are 3 stages to the Relationship Recovery Roadmap for connection therapy:

De-escalating, Restructuring and Consolidating

We will start by de-escalating your negative cycle and then follow a roadmap of addressing the underlying causes, repairing your ruptures and embedding the changes that you have made. The goal is for you to enjoy deeper connection, either with the struggling parts of your heart, or with loved ones.

My heart is to resource you. So on our journey together I draw from my unique toolkit to personalise your recovery, and take you from surviving to thriving.  

To help you achieve your desired results more quickly, there is the option of double sessions, as well as 1/2 day, 1 or 2 day Relationship Retreats and EFT Intensives in Chertsey.

As a Therapist trained to Level 2 in The Gottman Method, I have access to these resources as well. 

My heart is to resource you. With this in mind my No.1 Bestseller book 'Marriage Makeover: Make Yours Great' is available on Amazon. 

https://mybook.to/MarriageMakeover

In summary I offer 4 services across Individual, Couple & Family Therapy:

1. Connection therapy 

Offered for couples and families with children aged 13+. After an initial family assessment the sessions focus on the most troubled dyads 

2. Coaching for personal growth 

3. Clarifying through Discernment Counselling for mixed agenda couples, where one is leaning in and one leaning out of the relationship

4. Courses online with optional mentoring

I am passionate about restoring harmony in your heart and your home, so you can live a life you love. It would be a privilege to come alongside you with sensitivity. My heart is for you to 'come home to happy', as an individual, as a couple and as a family.

You are welcome to book a free 15 minute call, and you will be met with TLC at The Love Clinic.

You will be given a warm welcome at The Love Clinic.

Your first session is an informal assessment. Whether you attend as an individual, as a couple, or as a family, it will be an opportunity for you to share your recent experience of the situation from your perspective, and what you would be looking for from our time together.

It is also helpful for me to understand what the catalyst has been for your decision to try therapy now.

If you have had previous experience of seeking help for your presenting problem, it will be really important to share what that was like for you too, and in particular what caused you to now seek support elsewhere.

Having gleaned an insight into your current source of distress and goals of therapy, I will introduce you to the roadmap for your recovery, and how it will be tailored to you. This assessment will provide clarity on the next best step for you in the process, whether as an individual, a couple or family.

In Couple Therapy this first session will be followed by an individual session with each of you. For some couples a Relationship Retreat or EFT Intensive over a weekend may be the smartest way forward, or double sessions are an option.

If you come for Family Therapy then the plan for the subsequent sessions will be formed from the assessment information. However, the focus will be on those dyads within the family that are presenting with the most distress. Therefore most sessions will only be for those caught in that negative cycle, rather than for the whole family.

I offer a free 15 minute online consultation if you would like this before booking your first session. Most importantly this will give us a chance to meet. However it will also give you the opportunity to ask me your burning questions, and it will offer me the chance to explain more to you about how I work both therapeutically and practically.

I look forward to hearing from you and supporting you on your heart journey. You deserve the opportunity to 'come home to happy'.