Mirlene Leite Dos Santos

I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor with a BSc in Counselling and Coaching, specializing in Psychosexual Therapy. As a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP) and working towards accreditation with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). My experience includes working in NHS and educational settings, where I have supported individuals and couples through a variety of personal, relationship, and intimacy challenges.

I provide a safe, supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their concerns with openness and understanding. By addressing both the emotional and physical aspects of intimacy, we work together to rebuild confidence, strengthen relationships, and improve communication.

Every client’s journey is unique, and whether you’re looking for short-term support for a specific issue or long-term therapy for deeper healing, I tailor my approach to meet your needs. Therapy is an opportunity to break free from limiting patterns, rediscover connection, and build a more fulfilling, satisfying sex life.

Are you struggling with sexual dysfunction, desire issues, or challenges in your intimacy? Feeling disconnected in your sex life or relationship? You're not alone. Many individuals and couples seek therapy feeling frustrated, uncertain, or stuck when it comes to their sexual well-being. Whether it's performance anxiety, mismatched desire, past trauma, or compulsive sexual behaviours, these challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate them alone.

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Areas of Support

✔ Struggles with intimacy or desire – Feeling disconnected from your partner or experiencing a mismatch in sexual needs.

✔ Sexual dysfunction – Navigating concerns like erectile difficulties, vaginismus, painful intercourse, or loss of arousal.

✔ Relationship & communication challenges – Strengthening connection, trust, and emotional intimacy.

✔ Healing from sexual trauma & anxiety – Processing past experiences to feel safe and empowered in your sexuality.

✔ Compulsive sexual behaviours & porn addiction – Managing patterns that affect self-esteem, confidence, and relationships.

Using a dynamic, relationship-focused approach combined with evidence-based behavioural techniques, I help clients break negative cycles, heal emotional wounds, and rebuild fulfilling, connected relationships. Sessions are tailored to fit your unique situation, whether you are looking for immediate support or engaging in deeper, ongoing therapeutic work. Take the Next Step If you’re ready to improve your relationship with yourself, your partner, or your sexuality, I’m here to help. Therapy is a space for growth, healing, and reconnection. Get in touch today to start your journey toward greater confidence, intimacy, and fulfilment.

Your first session is an opportunity for us to explore what brings you to therapy, what you hope to gain, and what support you may need. I will complete an assessment to better understand your concerns, background, and goals, allowing me to determine which therapeutic interventions will best support you.

We’ll also discuss what to expect from therapy, including the process, possible challenges, and how we can work together effectively. This session helps us both decide if we are the right fit to continue therapy and build a space where you feel safe, heard, and supported.

If you're ready to begin your journey toward greater confidence, intimacy, and emotional well-being, I look forward to working with you.