Tom Fryer

I am a counsellor who specialises in relationship difficulties, sex & sexuality, creativity and spiritual crisis. I work with people of all genders, and I am an LGBTQI+ positive counsellor.  Counselling itself is a therapeutic relationship which can bring you a deeper understanding of what’s causing you to relate to people in the way you are.

Relationship Difficulties

Perhaps the relationships in your life, romantic or otherwise, are not working as you would wish. Maybe you notice yourself sabotaging your relationships or pushing people away from you, leaving you lonely and isolated. Perhaps you feel constantly rejected and unworthy of affection.

Sex & Sexuality

Are you questioning your sexuality or gender identity, or struggling to find your place within the complex narratives that exist today? Are you facing struggles within your sex life? Perhaps you have experienced trauma around sex which is preventing you from exploring your sex life as you would wish. Maybe you have experienced an addiction to sex or pornography. Perhaps you would like to better understand a kink that you have.

Creativity

As a musician and performer myself, I know what it means to struggle creatively. Are there blockages to you achieving your creative potential? Do you find yourself lacking creative fulfilment in your life? If you are struggling with self-esteem around your creative endeavours, or want to understand how to bring more creativity into your life, then we can work together to help you achieve your creative potential.

Spiritual crisis

Do you find yourself longing for something deeper that you can’t define? Is there a void in you that seemingly cannot be filled? Have you suffered from spiritual abuse at the hands of a fundamentalist religious organisation? Spirituality can be confusing in the modern world, but I can help you make sense of your spiritual life on a practical level, so it can enhance your day-to-day life rather than hold you back.

I work in a relational way: through building trust and understanding of one another we can co-create a relationship between us that will act as a powerful source of healing. Feeling seen and heard with compassion and understanding is a powerful thing, and as the trust builds between us and you feel comfortable to express more and and more vulnerability, then you can soon rediscover a connection with yourself that lost touch with a long time ago. 

Psychologist Carl Rogers wrote: “We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.” Through my continual open acceptance and commitment to your healing, and the growing self-awareness and self-acceptance you will feel, the healing happens in subtle and yet profound ways, almost of its own accord, while we work.

Our introductory session is for you to see if we are the right fit to work together. We will explore the reasons why you are seeking help, and we can go through any questions you have. You can tell me what you want to achieve from counselling, and we can talk about how we can work together to make that happen.

I see my clients online only. My availability is flexible.

I am a counsellor who specialises in relationship difficulties, sex & sexuality, creativity and spiritual crisis. I work with people of all genders, and I am an LGBTQI+ positive counsellor.  Counselling itself is a therapeutic relationship which can bring you a deeper understanding of what’s causing you to relate to people in the way you are.

Relationship Difficulties

Perhaps the relationships in your life, romantic or otherwise, are not working as you would wish. Maybe you notice yourself sabotaging your relationships or pushing people away from you, leaving you lonely and isolated. Perhaps you feel constantly rejected and unworthy of affection.

Sex & Sexuality

Are you questioning your sexuality or gender identity, or struggling to find your place within the complex narratives that exist today? Are you facing struggles within your sex life? Perhaps you have experienced trauma around sex which is preventing you from exploring your sex life as you would wish. Maybe you have experienced an addiction to sex or pornography. Perhaps you would like to better understand a kink that you have.

Creativity

As a musician and performer myself, I know what it means to struggle creatively. Are there blockages to you achieving your creative potential? Do you find yourself lacking creative fulfilment in your life? If you are struggling with self-esteem around your creative endeavours, or want to understand how to bring more creativity into your life, then we can work together to help you achieve your creative potential.

Spiritual crisis

Do you find yourself longing for something deeper that you can’t define? Is there a void in you that seemingly cannot be filled? Have you suffered from spiritual abuse at the hands of a fundamentalist religious organisation? Spirituality can be confusing in the modern world, but I can help you make sense of your spiritual life on a practical level, so it can enhance your day-to-day life rather than hold you back.

I work in a relational way: through building trust and understanding of one another we can co-create a relationship between us that will act as a powerful source of healing. Feeling seen and heard with compassion and understanding is a powerful thing, and as the trust builds between us and you feel comfortable to express more and and more vulnerability, then you can soon rediscover a connection with yourself that lost touch with a long time ago. 

Psychologist Carl Rogers wrote: “We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.” Through my continual open acceptance and commitment to your healing, and the growing self-awareness and self-acceptance you will feel, the healing happens in subtle and yet profound ways, almost of its own accord, while we work.

Our introductory session is for you to see if we are the right fit to work together. We will explore the reasons why you are seeking help, and we can go through any questions you have. You can tell me what you want to achieve from counselling, and we can talk about how we can work together to make that happen.

I see clients online only. My working hours are flexible. 

I am a counsellor who specialises in relationship difficulties, sex & sexuality, creativity and spiritual crisis. I work with people of all genders, and I am an LGBTQI+ positive counsellor.  Counselling itself is a therapeutic relationship which can bring you a deeper understanding of what’s causing you to relate to people in the way you are.

Relationship Difficulties

Perhaps the relationships in your life, romantic or otherwise, are not working as you would wish. Maybe you notice yourself sabotaging your relationships or pushing people away from you, leaving you lonely and isolated. Perhaps you feel constantly rejected and unworthy of affection.

Sex & Sexuality

Are you questioning your sexuality or gender identity, or struggling to find your place within the complex narratives that exist today? Are you facing struggles within your sex life? Perhaps you have experienced trauma around sex which is preventing you from exploring your sex life as you would wish. Maybe you have experienced an addiction to sex or pornography. Perhaps you would like to better understand a kink that you have.

Creativity

As a musician and performer myself, I know what it means to struggle creatively. Are there blockages to you achieving your creative potential? Do you find yourself lacking creative fulfilment in your life? If you are struggling with self-esteem around your creative endeavours, or want to understand how to bring more creativity into your life, then we can work together to help you achieve your creative potential.

Spiritual crisis

Do you find yourself longing for something deeper that you can’t define? Is there a void in you that seemingly cannot be filled? Have you suffered from spiritual abuse at the hands of a fundamentalist religious organisation? Spirituality can be confusing in the modern world, but I can help you make sense of your spiritual life on a practical level, so it can enhance your day-to-day life rather than hold you back.

I work in a relational way: through building trust and understanding of one another we can co-create a relationship between us that will act as a powerful source of healing. Feeling seen and heard with compassion and understanding is a powerful thing, and as the trust builds between us and you feel comfortable to express more and and more vulnerability, then you can soon rediscover a connection with yourself that lost touch with a long time ago. 

Psychologist Carl Rogers wrote: “We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.” Through my continual open acceptance and commitment to your healing, and the growing self-awareness and self-acceptance you will feel, the healing happens in subtle and yet profound ways, almost of its own accord, while we work.

Our introductory session is for you to see if we are the right fit to work together. We will explore the reasons why you are seeking help, and we can go through any questions you have. You can tell me what you want to achieve from counselling, and we can talk about how we can work together to make that happen.

I have flexible availability, and I see my clients online only.

I am a counsellor who specialises in relationship difficulties, sex & sexuality, creativity and spiritual crisis. I work with people of all genders, and I am an LGBTQI+ positive counsellor.  Counselling itself is a therapeutic relationship which can bring you a deeper understanding of what’s causing you to relate to people in the way you are. 

Relationship Difficulties

Perhaps the relationships in your life, romantic or otherwise, are not working as you would wish. Maybe you notice yourself sabotaging your relationships or pushing people away from you, leaving you lonely and isolated. Perhaps you feel constantly rejected and unworthy of affection.

Sex & Sexuality

Are you questioning your sexuality or gender identity, or struggling to find your place within the complex narratives that exist today? Are you facing struggles within your sex life? Perhaps you have experienced trauma around sex which is preventing you from exploring your sex life as you would wish. Maybe you have experienced an addiction to sex or pornography. Perhaps you would like to better understand a kink that you have.

Creativity

As a musician and performer myself, I know what it means to struggle creatively. Are there blockages to you achieving your creative potential? Do you find yourself lacking creative fulfilment in your life? If you are struggling with self-esteem around your creative endeavours, or want to understand how to bring more creativity into your life, then we can work together to help you achieve your creative potential.

Spiritual crisis

Do you find yourself longing for something deeper that you can’t define? Is there a void in you that seemingly cannot be filled? Have you suffered from spiritual abuse at the hands of a fundamentalist religious organisation? Spirituality can be confusing in the modern world, but I can help you make sense of your spiritual life on a practical level, so it can enhance your day-to-day life rather than hold you back.

I work in a relational way: through building trust and understanding of one another we can co-create a relationship between us that will act as a powerful source of healing. Feeling seen and heard with compassion and understanding is a powerful thing, and as the trust builds between us and you feel comfortable to express more and and more vulnerability, then you can soon rediscover a connection with yourself that lost touch with a long time ago. 

Psychologist Carl Rogers wrote: “We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.” Through my continual open acceptance and commitment to your healing, and the growing self-awareness and self-acceptance you will feel, the healing happens in subtle and yet profound ways, almost of its own accord, while we work.

Our introductory session is for you to see if we are the right fit to work together. We will explore the reasons why you are seeking help, and we can go through any questions you have. You can tell me what you want to achieve from counselling, and we can talk about how we can work together to make that happen.

I see clients online only. My working hours are flexible.

I am a counsellor who specialises in relationship difficulties, sex & sexuality, creativity and spiritual crisis. I work with people of all genders, and I am an LGBTQI+ positive counsellor.  Counselling itself is a therapeutic relationship which can bring you a deeper understanding of what’s causing you to relate to people in the way you are.

Relationship Difficulties

Perhaps the relationships in your life, romantic or otherwise, are not working as you would wish. Maybe you notice yourself sabotaging your relationships or pushing people away from you, leaving you lonely and isolated. Perhaps you feel constantly rejected and unworthy of affection.

Sex & Sexuality

Are you questioning your sexuality or gender identity, or struggling to find your place within the complex narratives that exist today? Are you facing struggles within your sex life? Perhaps you have experienced trauma around sex which is preventing you from exploring your sex life as you would wish. Maybe you have experienced an addiction to sex or pornography. Perhaps you would like to better understand a kink that you have.

Creativity

As a musician and performer myself, I know what it means to struggle creatively. Are there blockages to you achieving your creative potential? Do you find yourself lacking creative fulfilment in your life? If you are struggling with self-esteem around your creative endeavours, or want to understand how to bring more creativity into your life, then we can work together to help you achieve your creative potential.

Spiritual crisis

Do you find yourself longing for something deeper that you can’t define? Is there a void in you that seemingly cannot be filled? Have you suffered from spiritual abuse at the hands of a fundamentalist religious organisation? Spirituality can be confusing in the modern world, but I can help you make sense of your spiritual life on a practical level, so it can enhance your day-to-day life rather than hold you back.

I work in a relational way: through building trust and understanding of one another we can co-create a relationship between us that will act as a powerful source of healing. Feeling seen and heard with compassion and understanding is a powerful thing, and as the trust builds between us and you feel comfortable to express more and and more vulnerability, then you can soon rediscover a connection with yourself that lost touch with a long time ago. 

Psychologist Carl Rogers wrote: “We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.” Through my continual open acceptance and commitment to your healing, and the growing self-awareness and self-acceptance you will feel, the healing happens in subtle and yet profound ways, almost of its own accord, while we work.

Our introductory session is for you to see if we are the right fit to work together. We will explore the reasons why you are seeking help, and we can go through any questions you have. You can tell me what you want to achieve from counselling, and we can talk about how we can work together to make that happen.

I am a counsellor who specialises in relationship difficulties, sex & sexuality, creativity and spiritual crisis. I work with people of all genders, and I am an LGBTQI+ positive counsellor.  Counselling itself is a therapeutic relationship which can bring you a deeper understanding of what’s causing you to relate to people in the way you are.

Relationship Difficulties

Perhaps the relationships in your life, romantic or otherwise, are not working as you would wish. Maybe you notice yourself sabotaging your relationships or pushing people away from you, leaving you lonely and isolated. Perhaps you feel constantly rejected and unworthy of affection.

Sex & Sexuality

Are you questioning your sexuality or gender identity, or struggling to find your place within the complex narratives that exist today? Are you facing struggles within your sex life? Perhaps you have experienced trauma around sex which is preventing you from exploring your sex life as you would wish. Maybe you have experienced an addiction to sex or pornography. Perhaps you would like to better understand a kink that you have.

Creativity

As a musician and performer myself, I know what it means to struggle creatively. Are there blockages to you achieving your creative potential? Do you find yourself lacking creative fulfilment in your life? If you are struggling with self-esteem around your creative endeavours, or want to understand how to bring more creativity into your life, then we can work together to help you achieve your creative potential.

Spiritual crisis

Do you find yourself longing for something deeper that you can’t define? Is there a void in you that seemingly cannot be filled? Have you suffered from spiritual abuse at the hands of a fundamentalist religious organisation? Spirituality can be confusing in the modern world, but I can help you make sense of your spiritual life on a practical level, so it can enhance your day-to-day life rather than hold you back.

I see clients online only. 

I work in a relational way: through building trust and understanding of one another we can co-create a relationship between us that will act as a powerful source of healing. Feeling seen and heard with compassion and understanding is a powerful thing, and as the trust builds between us and you feel comfortable to express more and and more vulnerability, then you can soon rediscover a connection with yourself that lost touch with a long time ago. 

Psychologist Carl Rogers wrote: “We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.” Through my continual acceptance of you, and my commitment to your healing, you will feel a growing sense self-awareness and self-acceptance. The healing itself happens in subtle and yet profound ways, almost of its own accord, while we work.

Our introductory session is for you to see if we are the right fit to work together. We will explore the reasons why you are seeking help, and we can go through any questions you have. You can tell me what you want to achieve from counselling, and we can talk about how we can work together to make that happen.