Domonique Hillam-Thompson

Talking about intimacy and sex can be be difficult for many, and I appreciate how much courage it can take to approach a therapist about these. I aim to help you feel safe, comfortable, and positive that there are solutions available.

Sex therapy can help with:

Vaginismus

Anorgasmia

Penetration difficulties on intercourse

Pain on intercourse (dyspareunia)​

Intimacy

Erectile dysfunction

Premature ejaculation

Lack of sexual desire

Infrequent sex

Phobias resulting from early physical or sexual abuse

Fantasies

I am a Relate trained practitioner. I specialise in Relationship Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy, Trauma and Workplace Issues.

What to expect:

Assessment. 

Your first session will be an assessment. This is important as it helps us identify what the issue is. If you are in a relationship I encourage you to bring your partner along. If not, that is also okay.

On - going work

I use a structured programme which works when followed. This requires commitment. We will be exploring your history, behaviours, thoughts and feelings alongside tasks each week.

Sex therapy can be very effective. If you are experiencing sexual issues, do get in touch.

Hello, my name is Domonique and I am from the UK. I am specialised in several areas:

Relationship Therapy

In order to keep our relationships healthy we need to attend to them to ensure they remain respectful, trusting, sexual and happy. Because of the busyness of day to day life, we can easily disconnect from our partners without realising it leading to a lack of communication, conflict, affairs, and dissatisfaction. When married, or when children are involved, these problems become even more complex. It might even be that since the countries lockdown, you are now realising there are issues in your relationship. Now could be a good time to resolve these.

Sex Therapy

I work with a variety of sexual issues, please visit my Sex Therapy add or dhtlondoncounselling.com for more details.

Work place issues

Stress, anxiety, depression, relationships at work

Trauma

I am qualified in EMDR and Fast Trauma Therapy. 

EMDR is a well researched psychotherapy to treat PTSD, anxiety disorders, bereavement etc.  

BPD

I have lots of experience working with Borderline Personality Disorder and DBT. 

I work with all developmental and life stages, physical and mental health, learning disabilities, personality disorders, sexuality, culture and religion. My aim is for you to feel as comfortable as possible for us to work together to tackle any difficulties you have.

In my Relate, NHS and Private Practice I work with a wide variety of people from different backgrounds, sexual orientations, gender and ethnicity. I am passionate about diversity and offer a safe, confidential, non – judgemental space for you to explore, grow and resolve anything you bring. 

Step 1

Contact me with a brief description of your issue(s) and to arrange an Assessment Appointment

Step 2

The Initial Assessment will be used to understand the issue in more detail, and explore more clearly what you would like to get from our sessions. This helps us to keep moving forward in the work.

Step 3

On-going sessions will be arranged