Cassandra Jay

BSc (Hons) Psych, HNC ECS, CSAT Sex Add. PGDipl PSRT, PGDip CplPsych, Qualified Clinical Supervisor, EFS & ESSM International Certified Psycho-sexologist, COSRT Accredited

Clinical Director and Founder

Psychosexual, Relationship & Forensic Psychotherapist

Clinical and Training Supervisor

I provide affordable, unbiased and confidential psychotherapy for individuals and couples in Buckinghamshire, Oxfordshire, Hertfordshire and London.

My therapeutic approach is integrative and incorporates elements of Person-centred therapy, Psychodynamic theory, Gestalt and Imago therapies and a systemic approach. I work with each and every client in a way that is right for you.

After completing my BSc (Hons) in Psychology, I qualified with the London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy. I also hold a Certificate in Counselling Skills and an HNC in Early Childhood Studies with extensive study in child/parental relationships and attachment. I am committed to on-going personal and professional development and have attended a number of courses and seminars in the areas of Psychology, Counselling and Sexuality. I have also completed specialist training on working with sexual minorities including the LGBT(Q) community.

I have spent time working with charities and organisations specialising in the reintegration of sex offenders into the community and the support of survivors of sexual abuse and rape. I have completed extensive specialist Sex Addiction training with Patrick Carnes and other pioneers in the field and have vast experience of working with Addictions in the Psychosexual field including Sex, Pornography and Love Addiction and co-dependent relationships.

I have received awards for Psychotherapy Clinic of the Year (2024), Counselling Service of the Year (2021 and 2022 – London and South East Prestige Awards), Excellence in Psychotherapy Care Services (2019), Excellence in LGBT Aware Therapy (2017) and Psychotherapist of the year in the 2017 Global Health and Pharma Awards.

I offer a safe and secure space to discuss and resolve any of the following, either alone or with your partner-

Relationship issues

Family issues

Communication issues

Sexual Compulsivity/ Addiction

Problematic Pornography use

Co-Dependency issues

Gender confusion

Sexual identity issues

Intimacy issues

Jealousy

Infidelity

Commitment

Pre-Marital concerns

Sexual issues

Loss of desire

Sexual Dysfunction, for example, Erectile Dysfunction and Vaginismus

Kink Aware Therapy

LGBTQ + Aware Therapy including Pansexual, Polyamory, Bigender, Demisexual, MSM/WSM, Skoliosexual

Asexual/Aromantic identification

Life issues

Stress

Financial issues

Issues with children/ step-children

General anxiety and disturbing thoughts

Bereavement

Career issues

Loss of direction in life

Addiction – Behavioural & Substance

Self esteem and body image issues

Loneliness

Developing mindfulness & meditation practice

OCD

Hoarding

Decluttering and Organising

I strongly believe that Psychotherapy should be available for everybody, and as such, I always strive to find a therapist within my organisation that you will be able to see for a fee that is affordable for you, no matter what your circumstances are. Please do call or e-mail to discuss your requirements further and to see how Psychotherapy or counselling may be able to help you.