Ruth Murtagh

If you’re reading this, you may be feeling unhappy on your own, or wanting your relationship to be different.

You may be in a couple, wondering if you can rediscover the relationship you once had with your partner, or to find a different way forward. Perhaps you or your partner have had/ or are having an affair.

You may be an individual, trying to cope with the loss of a relationship, or wanting to be able to find lasting love.

Perhaps there are relationships with your children or wider family, with friends or people at work that upset you; or you are unhappy with your own behaviour. 

If you long for a healthy relationship that doesn’t leave you feeling hurt, you are not alone.

Many individuals and couples struggle with difficulties which can bring pain: leaving them feeling exhausted and stressed. After all, we’re not given a relationship manual when we’re born.

For many of us, improving our relationship with ourselves is key.

I will listen carefully and will not judge you. I do not take sides. I am genuinely passionate about helping my clients move out of destructive and painful patterns of relating with each other, whether they are with partners, family, friends, or at work.

I believe that we are all doing our best in situations, even when our behaviour can seem destructive or self-sabotaging.

My role is to help you explore and develop preferred ways of behaving and living your life. I really care about all of my clients and tailor my approach to suit each person’s/ couple’s unique needs.

However, I don’t work with couples where any physical, verbal, emotional abuse is present, or has been in the past

I do understand that it can be daunting making that first contact, but in some ways, that's the hardest part. It's up to you how many sessions you choose to have.

All couples or individuals are welcome- any age, culture, religion, LGBTQIA+ or physical ability.